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He paʻakikī ka ʻimi ʻana i ka noho mare kūpono. Ua hoʻohana mākou i mau makahiki e ʻimi ana i kahi noho male maikaʻi akā ʻaʻole i loaʻa. Ua ʻike mākou a pau i ka nui o ka manawa a me ka hoʻoikaika ʻana i ka hoʻolālā ʻana i kahi male, ʻoiai inā ʻaʻole mākou i mākaukau e hoʻopaʻa i kā mākou iho.

Pono mākou e hoʻokomo i nā kikoʻī o ke ʻano o nā noho i loaʻa a pehea i hoʻolālā ʻia a kūkulu ʻia ai e hoʻokō i kā mākou pono a me kā mākou kālā. Manaʻo wau e ʻike ʻoe i kahi mea hoihoi ma aneʻi!

Māhele kumuhana: Hoʻonui i kou ʻaʻahu me nā ʻāpana hou i kēlā me kēia kau

Hoʻolauna: E alo kākou; Ua luhi ko mākou ʻaʻahu i kekahi manawa. Pono ia e hoʻololi mau a i ʻole nā ​​​​mea pani e pili ana i nā ʻano o ke ʻano a me nā lako a mākou e nānā nei. ʻAʻohe ala maikaʻi ma mua o ka loaʻa ʻana o nā ʻāpana hou i kēlā me kēia kau, e kōkua iā mākou

He aha ka noho mare hope loa? ʻAʻole mākou ʻike. Akā, loaʻa iā mākou kekahi mau manaʻo, e pili ana i kā mākou ʻike ma ka ʻoihana male.

E noʻonoʻo ʻoe he wahine mare ʻoe e makemake ana e loaʻa ka lā poina ʻole loa. ʻIke ʻoe i kāna makemake - kahi mea nani, akā ʻoluʻolu a maʻalahi hoʻi. Ke hele ʻoe i loko o ka hale pule, aisle a i ʻole kahi e hele ai ka pāʻina, ʻaʻole ʻoe e hoka i kāu koho noho. Akā naʻe, ʻaʻole maʻalahi ke koho ʻana no ka mea he nui nā koho ma laila e koho ai ʻoe! ʻO ia ke kumu e nānā ai kēia kumuhana i ka hāʻawi ʻana iā ʻoe i nā noho male e hoʻokaʻawale a nani hoʻi kāu lā male.

Me ka holomua o ka ʻenehana, hiki iā mākou ke hoʻolālā a kūkulu i nā noho me he mea lā i hana ʻia me ke gula. ʻO ka pilikia wale nō ʻaʻohe ala e kūkulu maoli ai iā lākou.

He manaʻo maikaʻi ke hoʻolimalima i nā poʻe akamai i kā lākou hana. ʻO ia ke kumu e ʻimi ai i nā mea hoʻolālā noho male maikaʻi loa ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo maikaʻi wale nō, akā he mea maikaʻi nō hoʻi. ʻOi loa inā makemake ʻoe i kāu poʻe malihini e loaʻa kahi manawa poina me ʻoe a me kou ʻohana, pono kēia mau noho no kēlā.

Mahalo i ka holomua o nā mea waiwai, ʻenehana a me ka hoʻolālā ʻana, ʻo ka lā mare kekahi o nā lā poina ʻole o kou ola. ʻO ka lā male ka manawa wale nō e hoʻolimalima ai ʻoe me kāu mea koʻikoʻi, no laila he mea nui e nānā iā lākou a e hōʻoia i ka maikaʻi o nā mea āpau e pili ana i kā lāua lā male. Eia kekahi mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo e hiki ke kōkua iā ʻoe e hana i kēia:

No laila, eia kekahi mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo no ka lā mare maikaʻi:

ʻO ka mea mua, e hoʻolohe i ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi mea paʻi kiʻi maikaʻi ma luna o ka moku. ʻO lākou ka poʻe loea maoli i ka wā e kiʻi ai i nā kiʻi ma nā kihi like ʻole a me nā kukui, no laila hiki iā lākou ke hōʻoia e loaʻa iā ʻoe nā kiʻi maikaʻi loa o nā mea āpau i kāu lā male. Inā hiki, e kākau i ka mea i ʻike i ka male ʻana a me nā mea e komo ai nā wahine mare i nā lole lōʻihi ma mua o nā lole pōkole.

ʻO kēia kahi hiʻohiʻona o nā noho mare kaulana loa a me nā uhi noho bespoke no 2018.

Aia ka ʻatikala ma lalo nei i kahi hoʻohālikelike kikoʻī o nā noho male maikaʻi loa a me nā uhi noho bespoke. Ma mua o ka heluhelu ʻana i kēia ʻatikala, pono ʻoe e kamaʻāina i nā kumu o nā ʻano mea like ʻole a me kāna hoʻohana ʻana. E kōkua kēia iā ʻoe e hana i kahi hoʻoholo kūpono i ke kūʻai ʻana i nā lako mare.

ʻO ka noho e mālama ʻia ai ka male ʻana kekahi o nā mea nui loa o ka ʻaha male. ʻO ia no ka mea e kuhikuhi ana pehea ʻoe e noho ai a me ke ʻano o kahi hoʻonohonoho noho āu e loaʻa ai. Pono nā noho e ʻoluʻolu, ʻike maka a hana.

ʻO nā noho male ke kikowaena o ka hoihoi no ka wahine mare a me ke kāne mare. Pono lākou e ʻoluʻolu i ka noho ʻana, ʻano, ʻano a nani hoʻi no ka lā male male.

E like me kā mākou ʻike, ʻo ka lā mare ka lā nani a kūikawā o kou ola. Pono e loaʻa kahi noho mare kūpono no ka manawa.

Hiki i ka ʻike kamepiula, ka nānā ʻana i ka neʻe, ka palapala ʻāina a me nā ʻenehana ʻē aʻe ke kōkua iā mākou e hoʻolālā i nā noho e kūlike i kā mākou ʻike male. No laila inā ke hoʻolālā nei ʻoe e mare i ka makahiki 2019 a i ʻole 2020 - mai poina e kau i kou noho moe ma kāu papa inoa o nā noho male hope loa.