Ingabe Kukhona Ukuthambekela Okubonakalayo Kochwepheshe Bezengqondo Bezihlalo Zezikhali Ababela I-BPD Kwabanye (njengaku-Say Narcissism)?

I-Jewel SimpsonUmphakathi usanda kuqaphela abantu basemngceleni kanye ne-narcissism ngenxa yemithombo yezokuxhumana. I-Narcissism yanezelwa ku-DSM ngo-1980 njengesifo esibonakalayo, kodwa abantu abaningi bebengakwazi lokho, kuhlanganise nabahlinzeki bezempilo yengqondo abaningi. wengeze umgodi**. Lapho ngiqala ukufunda ngezimfanelo ezihlukanisayo zama-narcissists, kwakunjengokukhanya okunamandla okukhanyisa ukudideka nosizi lokuphila kwami. Zonke izici ezichazwayo zimfanela ku-tee. Kwakuyisheke, hlola, hlola. Kwakumangalisa ukwazi ukuthi zaziningi, nokuthi zonke ziyefana futhi azilapheki. Ngemva kokukhanyiswa ngegesi futhi nokuzethemba kwami ​​kunyathelwe amashumi eminyaka, ekugcineni ngathola ukuqinisekiswa. Ngafunda konke engangikwazi, kuhlanganise nokufunda izincwadi ezingaphezu kweshumi nambili, kuhlanganise nezincwadi zezazi.Njengoba ngingeyena uchwepheshe wezempilo yengqondo (yize ngingudokotela), angiboshiwe izimiso zokuziphatha ukuthi ngingaxilonga umuntu engingakamhloli. Ngakho-ke, ngiveza umbono ofundile kuphela lapho ngifinyelela ukwazisa noma ukusiza abantu abasazibuza ukuthi kungani abantu abathi bayabathanda bebaphatha sengathi bayabazonda. Mhlawumbe akuwona wonke umuntu obhala umbuzo mayelana ne-narcissist obhekana nomunye ngempela, kodwa bazizwa behlukunyeziwe futhi kufanele bathole ukwesekwa kanye nabanye abantu abaye babhekana nesimo esifanayo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, i-narcissism iwukuphazamiseka kwe-spectrum, ngakho-ke ukuqina kwayo kuyahlukahluka kusuka komnene kuya kobunzima. Kwesinye isikhathi kuba ucingo olusondele, kwesinye isikhathi kusobala ngokusobala.

1. Ingabe ikhona indlela "yokudweba" noma ukudaya indwangu ye-armchair?

Yebo ungakwenza. Kodwa bengizobheka izikhombisi-ndlela ezizosetshenziswa efenisha ngokucophelela

2. Iliphi igama elifanayo elihle lokungazi lapho umbuzo noma impendulo ibonisa ukuntula okucacile kolwazi oluvela kulabo okuthiwa ochwepheshe bezihlalo zengalo abenqaba ukwamukela ulwazi lochwepheshe bangempela?

Wonke umuntu wesilisa unguchwepheshe kokuthile. Kuzwakala sengathi ukuchema kungase kube yilokho obhekisela kukho njengokungazi. Lokhu ngikusho ngoba ukungazi akufundile noma kungaziwa ngisho nongoti bezitulo zengalo banolwazi. Ukunemba kwanoma yiluphi ulwazi kungaba nephutha eliphansi futhi libe nephutha elikhulu. Ulwazi lungashintsha ngokuhamba kwesikhathi futhi. Into Ngochwepheshe, ukuthi noma yimuphi uchwepheshe ngumuntu onemibono yomuntu siqu, futhi ngisho namaqiniso ukuchema kwabo kungadala ubunzima.Kumuntu ocabanga ngokweqiniso, umhlaziyi, umseshi, bazobheka lonke ulwazi hhayi nje kuphela. ulwazi abalubona lulungile noma lufanelekile. Lokhu ukubona emacaleni ezinkantolo zobugebengu lapho ochwepheshe bebizwa khona ukuze banikeze ubufakazi futhi i-akhawunti yochwepheshe ngayinye yamaqiniso noma ubufakazi ecaleni ihluke ngokuphelele. Kulokhu, ungaba nochwepheshe ababili babheke ubufakazi obufanayo ebugebengwini, amaqiniso afanayo, futhi baqhamuke nezinguqulo ezimbili ezihluke ngokuphelele zalokho okwenzekile. Amaqiniso ayafana kodwa ukuchema nezinkolelo zomuntu siqu zikubumbe zaba izinguqulo ezethulwe ngendlela ehlukile. Kungokufanayo nalapho kunikezwa ulwazi noma lapho othile ephendula umbuzo nge-Quora, ngakho-ke noma ngabe uchwepheshe wesihlalo se-armchair noma uchwepheshe we-PhD, ukuvezwa kwamaqiniso komuntu siqu nokuyingqayizivele kungabaluleka kakhulu kuye ngokuthi ubani ofundayo nokufunda. Uchwepheshe unguchwepheshe kuphela kuze kube yilapho omunye uchwepheshe aphonsela inselelo ubuchwepheshe bakhe. Amaqiniso amaqiniso futhi uma ungakwazi ukufunda eduze kwesithunywa emyalezweni ungase uthole ochwepheshe abathile bezihlalo zengalo banezinto ezizwakalayo abangazisho. Ngaphandle kwalokho, kwabanye ochwepheshe engike ngababona nengike ngezwa bethi ezindabeni futhi ezinjalo ziyinhlekisa ngokuphelele kodwa abantu abaningi bakholelwa ngaphandle kokungabaza ngoba igama elithi uchwepheshe liphambi kwegama labo ku-tv screen. Singafunda kunoma ubani. Ngisho nochwepheshe be-armchair. Iliphi igama elifanayo elihle lokungazi lapho umbuzo noma impendulo ibonisa ukuntula okucacile kolwazi oluvela kulabo okuthiwa ochwepheshe bezihlalo zengalo abenqaba ukwamukela ulwazi lochwepheshe bangempela?

3. Kunina nonke bosomnotho abahlezi ezihlalweni, yiliphi iphutha elikhulu elenziwa izwe lethu, uma sikhuluma ngokwezomnotho?

Ngiyisazi sezomnotho sangempela, futhi ngingasho ngokuphepha ukuthi inketho 3 ikufingqa kangcono ukuwa kwethu kwezomnotho. Nakuba, ngiyazi ukuthi zonke izazi zezomnotho ze-armchair ngeke zivumelane nami. Kodwa akunankinga, sengichithe iminyaka ngifunda ezomnotho futhi ngineziqu zokuzifakazela. Ithiyori ye-Keynesian incike kakhulu ekugxekweni kwemboni ezimele futhi idikibalisa ukukhula kwemakethe yamahhala. Imodeli ye-IS/LM izama ukufingqa imibono ka-Keynes. Umuntu udinga kuphela ukubheka isidingo semali yemali ukuze aqonde ukuthi ukutholakala okuningi kunomthelela omubi emnothweni uwonke.