Ngaba kukho iNdlela ecacileyo yeeNgqondo zengqondo zeArmchair ezabela i-BPD kwabanye (njengaku-Say Narcissism)?
Jewel SimpsonUluntu kutshanje luye lwaqaphela ubuntu bomda kunye ne-narcissism ngenxa yemidiya yoluntu. I-Narcissism yongezwa kwi-DSM ngo-1980 njengengxaki ephawulekayo, kodwa abantu abaninzi bebengayazi loo nto, kubandakanywa nababoneleli bezempilo yengqondo abaninzi. kongezwe umngxuma**. Ukuqala kwam ukufunda ngeempawu ezichongiweyo zama-narcisists, kwaba ngathi kukukhanya okunamandla okukhanyisela ukubhideka nosizi lobomi bam. Zonke iimpawu ezichaziweyo zimfanela kwi-tee. Yayiyitshekhi, khangela, khangela. Kwakumangalisa ukwazi ukuba zininzi, kwaye zonke ziyafana kwaye azinyangeki. Emva kokuba ndikhanyiswe ngerhasi kwaye ukuzithemba kwam kunyathelwe amashumi eminyaka, ndiye ndaqinisekiswa. Ndifunde yonke into endinokuyenza, kuquka ukufunda iincwadi ezingaphezu kweshumi elinesibini, kuquka neempapasho zezifundiswa.Njengoko ndingeyongcali yempilo yengqondo (nangona ndingugqirha), andibotshelelwanga yimigaqo yokuziphatha ukuba ndingamxilonga umntu endingakhange ndimxilonge. Ke ngoko, ndivakalisa uluvo olufundileyo kuphela xa ndifikelela ukwazisa okanye ukunceda abantu abasazibuza ukuba kutheni abantu abathi bayabathanda babaphathe ngokungathi bayabacaphukela. Mhlawumbi ayinguye wonke umntu obhala umbuzo malunga ne-narcissist ojongene nayo ngokwenene, kodwa baziva bexhatshazwa kwaye kufuneka bafumane inkxaso kunye nakwabanye abantu abaye bakwimeko efanayo. Ukongeza, i-narcissism yintlupheko ye-spectrum, ngoko ke ubunzima bayo buyahluka ukusuka kwi-mild to severe. Ngamanye amaxesha lucingo olusondeleyo, ngamanye amaxesha lubonakala ngokucacileyo.
1. Ngaba kukho nayiphi na indlela "yokupenda" okanye ukudaya ilaphu le-armchair?
Ewe Unga. Kodwa bendiya kujonga izalathiso zokusetyenziswa kwifanitshala ngononophelo
2. Yiyiphi i-synonym efanelekileyo yokungazi xa umbuzo okanye impendulo ibonisa ukunqongophala okucacileyo kolwazi oluvela kwiingcali ezibizwa ngokuba ziingcali ze-armchair ezingafuni ukwamkela ulwazi lweengcali zangempela?
Wonke umntu uyingcaphephe kwinto ethile. Kuvakala ngathi umkhethe inokuba yile nto ubhekisa kuyo njengokungazi. Ndiyithetha le nto kuba ukungazi akufundanga okanye kungazi kwaye neengcali zezitulo zengalo zinolwazi. Ukuchaneka kwalo naluphi na ulwazi kunokuba yimpazamo ephantsi okanye ibe yimpazamo. Ulwazi lunokutshintsha ngokuhamba kwexesha. Into emalunga neeNgcali, kukuba nayiphi na ingcaphephe ngumntu onezimvo zobuqu, kwaye nangeenyani ezizithandayo zinokudala ubunzima.Kumntu ocinga ngenyani, umhlaziyi, umphandi, baya kujonga lonke ulwazi hayi nje. ulwazi abalubona lulungile okanye lufanelekile. Uyabona oku kumatyala enkundla yolwaphulo-mthetho apho iingcali zibizwa ukuba zinike ubungqina kunye ne-akhawunti yengcali nganye yeenyani okanye ubungqina kwimeko yahluke ngokupheleleyo. Kule nto, unokuba neengcali ezimbini zijonge ubungqina obufanayo kulwaphulo-mthetho, iinyani ezifanayo, kwaye zize neenguqulelo ezimbini ezihluke ngokupheleleyo zento eyenzekayo. Iinyani ziyafana kodwa ucalucalulo kunye neenkolelo zobuqu ziye zazibumba zaba ziinguqulelo eziveliswe ngokukodwa. Okufanayo kuya xa kunikwa ulwazi okanye xa umntu ephendula umbuzo kwi-Quora, kwaye ke nokuba yingcali ye-armchair okanye i-PhD ingcali, ukubonakaliswa kobuqu kunye nokwahlukileyo kweenyani kunokubaluleka kakhulu kuxhomekeke ekubeni ngubani ofundayo nokufunda. Ingcaphephe yingcaphephe kuphela de enye ingcali icele umngeni kubuchule bayo. Iinyani zizinyani kwaye ukuba unokufunda malunga nomthunywa kumyalezo unokufumana ezinye iingcali zesitulo se-armchair zinezinto ezinentsingiselo zokuthetha. Ngaphandle koko, kwezinye zeengcali endizibonileyo kwaye ndeva zithetha ezindabeni kwaye ezinjalo zihlekisa ngokupheleleyo kodwa abantu abaninzi bakholelwa ngaphandle kombuzo ngenxa yokuba igama elithi ingcali liphambi kwegama labo kwisikrini se-tv. Sinokufunda kuye nabani na. Nditsho neengcali ze-armchair. Yiyiphi i-synonym efanelekileyo yokungazi xa umbuzo okanye impendulo ibonisa ukunqongophala okucacileyo kolwazi oluvela kwiingcali ezibizwa ngokuba ziingcali ze-armchair ezingafuni ukwamkela ulwazi lweengcali zangempela?
3. Kubo bonke oosoqoqosho abakwizitulo zezixhobo ezilapha phandle, yeyiphi eyona mpazamo inkulu eyenziwe lilizwe lethu, xa sithetha ngokwezoqoqosho?
Ndiyingcali yezoqoqosho yokwenyani, kwaye ndingatsho ngokukhuselekileyo ukuba ukhetho 3 lushwankathela ukuwohloka kwethu kwezoqoqosho. Nangona, ndiyazi ukuba zonke ii-economists ze-armchair aziyi kuvumelana nam. Kodwa akunaxhala, ndichithe iminyaka ndifunda ezoqoqosho kwaye ndinedigri yokuyingqina. Ithiyori ye-Keynesian ixhomekeke kakhulu ekugxekweni kwecandelo labucala kwaye iyakudimaza ukukhula kwentengiso yasimahla. Imodeli ye-IS/LM izama ukushwankathela iithiyori zeKeynes. Umntu kufuneka ajonge kuphela imfuno yemali yokuhlawula amatyala ukuze aqonde ukuba unikezelo oluninzi lunempembelelo embi kuqoqosho luphela.
